I spend time here encouraging and supporting full-time professional personal historians.
But what about those of you who may be wondering if it’s time to give up being a personal historian all together? Remember there’s nothing wrong with quitting. I wrote about giving up in a previous post Stop With The Productivity Pitches!
I’ve changed careers at least four times in my life. From my experience here are the clues that tell you enough is enough.
Lack of Passion
This is a big one. To establish and run a successful personal history business requires an ongoing belief that what you’re doing is vital. You must absolutely love your work. If you find that the passion has gone and your days are a grind, then it’s time to move on.
Lack of Income
We all need to make enough money to pay the bills and have a little extra left over. For everyone that amount will vary. But if you’ve been working hard for a couple of years and you’re still having trouble making ends meet, you might want to reconsider being a personal historian. Nothing can kill your passion quicker than a dwindling bank account.
Lack of Energy
Keeping a business flourishing requires energy. There are ongoing marketing, networking, client projects, and administrative tasks. If you find that you don’t have the energy because of poor health, age, or caregiving responsibilities, you might want to call it quits.
lack of time
A successful personal history business is a full-time job. If you’re trying to run it while juggling other part-time jobs, you could face a crisis. While you may need extra income to keep yourself afloat, it makes it difficult to grow your personal history business. If you’re in this situation, consider giving it up and making personal history a hobby not a business.
Conclusion
Quitting is okay. I would caution though not to quit too early. Collective wisdom says that it takes at least two years to get a new business up and running. So give it time.
Some of the challenges I’ve mentioned above might be overcome by altering your approach. For example, a lack of passion may be a result of exhaustion rather than a lack of interest. Finding a way to bring some balance into your life might bring back the passion.
Before making your final decision to move on, weigh all the factors, look for possible solutions, and talk with trusted colleagues and friends. If it still looks like quitting is the answer, go for it!
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No quicker way to kill passion than exhaustion. I thought I had run out of gas for personal histories a few years ago, but joining my peer group in APH filled up my tank and then some. This year is my tenth anniversary officially as LifeStories (though labour and delivery was five years prior). I am so grateful to be doing this work. It’s definitely what I was meant to do. It’s so positive! Thanks for the reminder.
@Bernadette Hardaker. Congratulations on ten years! I agree with you that the APH is a great organization for learning and support.
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Dan, how is it you can creep inside my insecurities and post to them? Did I give you the password? LOL
Love what I do – passion. Get paid well – infrequently. Tons of energy – much spent on other things. Nothing but time – should I go back to art?
Typical Piscean perplexities!
@Peter Savigny. Thanks for this, Peter. Loved your notion of my “creeping” inside your insecurities.;-) I think if you’re self-employed in any venture, insecurities are bound to rise. They certainly have for me over the years. Getting the passion/income balance mastered can be a challenge especially in a field such as personal histories. For me passion trumps everything else. I’d rather be excited to get up every morning to begin work I really loved than stagger out of bed to some job that paid me handsomely but left me brain dead. As a consequence I’m not wealthy but I’m happy.
Keep me posted on your Piscean perplexities!
When I taught high school I felt I was living someone else’s life. I hated it. When I started doing personal history work, t felt like I had come home to myself. I have been at it for almost 25 years and sometimes now I consider retiring. But, I love the spark I get, the involvement with so many lives.
@memoryman. Your experience is true of so many personal historians who’ve found their calling. Thanks for dropping by and commenting, Denis.