So much happens to us all over the years. So much has happened within us and through us. We are to take time to remember what we can about it and what we dare. That’s what taking the time to enter the room (called “Remember”) means, I think. It means taking time to remember on purpose. It means not picking up a book for once or turning on the radio, but letting the mind journey gravely, deliberately, back through the years that have gone by but are not gone. It means a deeper, slower kind of remembering; it means remembering as a searching and finding. The room is there for all of us to enter if we choose.
Frederick Buechner, from Secrets in the Dark: A Life in Sermons
I like Buechner’s phrase “to remember on purpose”. It says to me that engaging in the recording of our life story or that of another is not a frivolous undertaking. It’s serious work. It requires that we take the time to reflect on life’s journey and by so doing not only leave a legacy but a clearer understanding of self.
Will you enter the room called “Remember”?
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